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30 Ways To Make A Girl Smile

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Lately I have been getting many emails and private messages from guys wanting to know why I get so many picture comments and video comments from girls on my social network sites and youtube.I’ve traveled pretty much everywhere in the world and to my surprise, girls are very alike no matter what age, color, language, religion or where you go they all want the same basic things to show your affection.

I won’t deny that having good looks always helps in your first impressions but if you don’t have the personality to back up your looks, you won’t get too far.The other day I was with a few friends who were telling me about the relationships with their girlfriends and how they were worried because they didn’t know how to show their affection, after a while I wrote down a list of things to show a girl how much you care about her.


A couple of days after I saw them again and they were telling me how well these things had worked, so I decided to share them with guys, see how you do.

1. Tell her she is beautiful. - Really… this is the most basic of them all, every girl wants to hear that her partner finds her attractive.

2. Hold her hand whenever you can. - Most girls love it, it makes them feel secure and appreciated.

3. Kiss her on the forehead. - Kissing her on other places apart from the mouth, shows you love all of her and not just the “goods”. It might also have something to do with hand holding since they are both things her father would of done.

4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to. - The waking up process is quite delicate, those moments after you wake up can change your whole day.Leaving a voice message to show you care, will truly make her day.

5. Always tell her shes the only girl you wanna be with. - I’ve seen that some girls really need reassurance about this, so telling her once in a while won’t hurt.

6. When she is upset tell her how much she means to you. - I think it just helps her look on the bright side of things, knowing she has someone by her side to help her get through anything thats upsetting her.

7. Recognize the small things. - Anyone can recognize the big things she does, but only a person that truly cares will pay attention to everything including the small things.

8. Call her baby. - It doesn’t have to be baby, any sweet or cute nickname will do, it helps create a special boding.

9. Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is. - They like to see your willing to make a fool out of yourself for her.

10. Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with. - This basically means, no matter what girls your hanging out with always try to be courteous towards her and leave any girl your talking too, to ask her out and dance.

11. Write her notes. - Writing sticky notes with cute messages and leaving them around her house/workplace is just a cute detail you can do to make her feel special.

12. Introduce her to friends as your girlfriend. - Some guys make the mistake of not mentioning your girlfriend to your friends and telling them shes just some random chick, if she finds out…. May god have mercy on your soul because she won’t.

13. Play with her hair. - Another way to show your thinking about her, plus you might find some lice…I’m j/k lol

14. Pick her up, tickle her and play wrestle with her. A cool way to show your affection, everyone wants to go back and be a kid again for a few minutes.

15. Talk to her without having to kiss her. - If your relationship is about a kiss for every 3 words you say to each other, try and get to know her more. Kissie Kissie will only get you so far.

16. Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, just tell her jokes. - Laughter has been and always will be one of the best ways to build a strong relationship.

17. Tell her when you miss her. - Call her at her work to remind her she is being missed, leave her notes, even a sms message will do.

18. Let her fall asleep in your arms. - Helps her feel loved and secure.

19. Open her car door. - Shows her your courteous.

20. If she’s mad at you, kiss her. - It shows no matter how pissed off you guys are at each other, the most important feeling will never change.

21. Give her piggyback rides. - Being child like and showing immaturity is always cute in a relationship.

22. Randomly tell her when you think she looks her best. - Helps her build confidence and shows that you notice her effort to look good.

23. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone. - Even I made this mistake once, don’t treat her differently in front of your friends too seem cool or macho, your just going to loose points.

24. Look her in the eyes and smile. - A silent way to show your thinking about her.

25. Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants. - Some girls like to take pictures of you, don’t ask me why because I don’t know.Just go with the flow and let them do it, they must want to have reminders of you.

26. Slow dance with her, even if there isn’t any music playing. - Random gestures of affection always help.

27. Don’t ever ignore her, no matter who is around. - There is some girls who need to know you take her in consideration, totally ignoring her for someone else will get you into trouble.

28. Kiss her in the rain/flowers petals on her bed. - Anything romantic that sounds corny works like a charm.

29. Tell her everything thats going on your in your life. - Telling her about your day, all the little things that happen will show her that you confide in her and make her feel like shes someone you appreciate so much you can tell her your most intimate feelings.

30. WHEN you fall in love with her . . . Tell her. - Don’t tell her just for the heck of it, wait for the right time when you really mean it.If they find out you told her without meaning it, it will be a HUGE let down.

As you can see the basic concept is to make her feel appreciated,special ect…. You don’t have to use any one the ways above, theirs tons of other ways you can come up with depending on the girls personality.Just remember to release the inner Romantic Corny Man Within hahaha.

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2 comments for “30 Ways To Make A Girl Smile”

  1. Cheapo

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    Posted by Jenn | July 16, 2007, 8:41 am
  2. It may sound stupid but may guys seem to forget these simple things:oops: And it’s usually the simplest things work like a charm.. these are really easy steps that get any girl to smile they work on me ALL the time. :mrgreen:

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    Posted by Jessy | July 16, 2007, 10:37 am

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